Work with Omar


Private coaching for men ready to do the work

Omar Pinto, a coach, speaker, facilitator, and creator of The Twelve Men

You may understand your patterns and still find yourself repeating them. You know when you become agreeable, controlling, distant, driven, or reactive. In the moment, though, knowing is not always enough to choose differently.

Private coaching gives us space to examine what is happening, understand the role each part of you plays, and practice a different way of leading your life.


Who this is for

You might be here because…

  • You have built a good life but feel disconnected from parts of yourself.

  • The same reactions keep appearing in your relationships.

  • You feel responsible for everyone, or exhausted by always holding it together.

  • Success has stopped feeling as satisfying as you expected.

  • You want to understand yourself more deeply and make changes you can actually live.


How we work

We begin with the man in front of us

The Twelve Men gives us a shared language for the patterns you carry. It helps us notice who built your life, who takes over under pressure, and who has had too little room to breathe.

From there, coaching focuses on your real circumstances: the conversations you avoid, the decisions you face, the relationships you want to change, and the life you want to lead. The aim is greater choice, honesty, and capacity to act.


Omar Pinto, men's coach and creator of The Twelve Men, speaking during an outdoor group retreat.

What coaching can help you explore

  • Patterns that keep repeating, even when you intend to change

  • Relationships, intimacy, and communication

  • Achievement, pressure, and identity

  • Boundaries, anger, and responsibility

  • Purpose, aliveness, and what comes next


How to begin

Start with a clearer picture of your patterns

Take The Twelve Men assessment, then explore your result. If you recognize something you want to work through with support, the next step is a conversation with Omar about private coaching.

In Their Own Words

Omar has helped transform my life in aspects I didn’t even recognize I needed. I’m a high achieving professional with a skeptic tone toward the life coaching industry, but I’m also intuitive and saw something in Omar that I wanted in my life, so I gave him a try. … My life is thriving in a way I never knew was possible.

— Matt Mendoza

Omar helped me to detect unresolved issues that I did not know existed and furthermore, guide me to resolve unsettled emotional states that needed to be reconciled. It was an amazing and gratifying journey that resulted in a better me with myself, a better me with my wife and sons and a better me at work.

— Adriano Arguedas

Omar has opened my eyes to a world I had been closing myself off to. He has helped me with my limiting beliefs about myself and my business. He has helped clear away some anger and resentment I had been holding on to with my wife for over 5 years. That was a game changer. My marriage is now flourishing because of ridding myself of that burden.

— Adam Johnson